What is love? 

And her eyes, the way she looked at me, 
Her smile and her beautiful lips. 
She was there and I was struck 
With something beyond this world, 
I was in love. “

CHAPTER TWO

What is love? 

Love is sacrifice.

Love is selflessness. 

Love is the truth. 

Love is what you can take beyond your death. 

Love is simple and that’s why, it’s complicated.

Poets, writers, singer-songwriters everyone of them had tried to put this feeling into words, you can say about your anger, your happiness, sadness, you have a proper reason, a proper a situation to feel these feelings, yet here, love stands out to be the most incomprehensible, and yet the most real of those feelings. 

It is really a shame that true love is so rare these days, our brains have become more robust than our hearts, and we can think now and never do. 

Logically, I have found the secret to why love happens, it is a simple result that anyone can come across if they have any time to think over things that are real. 

Love is how we reproduce, this is a feeling so that humans can get attracted and move their genes on. 

Simply sex, you cannot love without sex, love without sex will be friendship, and everybody is friendzoned so no-one has to care isn’t it? 

Every other creature in this planet goes by the same set of rules, there has to be a fight among the males to ensure the best genes forwarded, and human beings are no different, though their parameters of judging the best is different and can change from time to time but basically, if you see. 

What are the characteristics in females that males search for? 

We are attracted towards breasts, ever wondered why? 

A woman with a healthy pair of breasts stands better chances to feed the baby a healthy dosage of milk. 

We are attracted towards the booty . 

A woman with an oval and broad pair of buttocks will have easy, normal and healthy delivery of the baby. 

We search for beautiful ones, basically in science, human beings tends to say beautiful when they find symitrical figures. So basically we search for symetery. 

A woman with beauty will bring a beautiful offspring. 

We search for someone who is caring. 

A woman with a caring heart will be a caring mother. 

And you can list whatever you like in a woman and it will automatically be for just having a baby. 

Well let’s see what woman usually find attractive in men. 

A great build, muscular, strong body. 

To ensure he is capable to protect his offspring and his family. 

Suits, cars and money, maybe you guys already think that woman runs to money, but don’t be hard on them it’s an inbuilt trait, no offence girls but try to understand, it’s the reality. 

Money, so that the offspring may not lack anything while in growing period. 

And everything else, I guess I have made my point. 

It is not that everyone chooses the same, but if they would have given chance,or if there was a different situation than what is happening then it is prooven than it will happen that way only. 

Now, you are focused on a career, that is your top priority, but for what? For whom? 

Now if it had to do with “just yourself” then you would have not minded being on Facebook without any friends, or would not mind being alone. 

Some might say they are doing it for family, then let me tell you the truth, your parents are going to die before you, and you are going to be all alone in this world. No matter how good friends you have, you will be not the priority for them at some point of life. 

You do every single thing, to just love. 

To find someone to be with, to be complete. 

It’s no rocket science it’s just like gravity, no one knew about it until they realized.

I have accounted about love in a statistical way however it is much more than that. 

Now you have a logical picture about why all this attraction. But love is actually something beyond that, you may like those bosoms or rich men, but when love strikes there are no laws. 

It’s like I am totally contradicting myself but trust me it goes both the ways, it usually goes like science says but in reality it is like the Newton’s law of motion that can be applied within a parameter, outside the earth in the space it doesn’t work. 

There is this another dimension love goes and directions are pretty crazy. 

Love actually is energy, a flow of energy, you are literally one after you fall in love with each other. 

There is a feminine side in every man, think of it as if your body is a ratio of feminine and masculine and just like men, every female has the masculine side, the opposite quantity is very fragile, yet noticable. 

The imbalance in the quantity of the feminine and masculine aspects in male and female results in homosexuality, and hence the attraction is based on the fact. 

Now a man is portrayed as powerful and females are soft. Which is what we see, but in real, a woman is way more powerful than a man can possibly imagine. 

They release life energy, they are the source of life. 

Not just because they give birth and all, don’t take this like that. 

It is not explainable. I am stuck with just words here. I have it in my mind but don’t have an idea how to put it in words but i will try. 

Women are referred as beautiful and men are not always are said to be beautiful. Everything that is beautiful beyond explaination is dangerous and powerful. If you see the ocean, it is very beautiful, and it can sway away cities, volcanoes are mesmerizing! So are tornados, and they are severely powerful. And think of a girl the most beautiful sight ever, you will never turn around to see a tree or a flower, but the moment a girl walks down, you have a reason to look at her even though you don’t even know her and also that there is not even a slight chance that she is going to even say a word to you. Even if a girl is not attractive being a girl she can be a reason for the most painful feeling that people even kill themselves to get out of. 

Well, I am very sure about it. Women these days however are pathetic, pain in the ass. They are more disloyal, more complaining and very impatient. This is a big problem. They are always trying to compete with men and are asking for some kind of equality. They are so foolish, and that is because of the media of coarse, upbringing also plays a part. 

My word to all the ladies out there is, if you are asking for equality then you already think you are inferior and that thinking will keep you inferior all your life. Few might say that they are fighting for what is rightfully theirs, but they don’t understand that it is already there for them and no one can take it from them. 

Love my dear, just love. You know love is to give and to never ask, love is the act which can cross oceans and break mountains. That is totally shit from a bull whose mommy left daddy and he is just eating grass all day to shit more of that bullshit. 

Love comes with expectations, jealosy,impatience, and makes your life hell while you check each other’s phone, have each other’s social media passwords and have a gps tracker installed in each other’s bags. 

You live in fear and have no idea what will happen next. 

This is actually what it has come to and this is not love. I do understand that you might feel as if I am mocking your love which will turn you against me, but really if you like living in horror then sorry, keep up with your horror romantic. 

In reality love knows no fear, if there is fear, love will fade away. Just think about your friend you trust the most, you don’t fear and relax with him, that is love. You love your friend, your mother, your father, without having a fear. But when it comes to your girlfriend or boyfriend whom you are caring about more than your life, you are afraid. 

Leave the relationship, or just trust. 

The three fundamental aspects that breeds love are loyalty, understanding and trust. Have some faith, be loyal and try to understand. And if one of the partners choose to violate any of the three, then just move on with your life. You deserve love not crap. 

Love sometimes is taken so seriously that people forget that they are in love. It is not a serious ordeal, it is very not serious. 

People take money, property and love so seriously that they forget the sole meaning of everything. 

Love is not a disease that you are serious in a hospital. Relax a bit, have some patience. Don’t think you will never be loved again, because that will make things worse, she or he is right around the corner, wait for them. 

My friends have been sobbing on my shoulders since I was in 10th grade, they said -” I did everything for her and in return she broke my heart. ”

Well, first of all take that from your mind that you did anything for her or him. You always did it for yourself, it was your selfishness. You fell in love, and their happiness was your happiness, and to be happy yourself you did all that. And now when their happiness lies in leaving you, you again are being shellfish.

Every teacher in school is so busy to teach children mathematics that they don’t have time to teach love. 

A school hired me for teaching music, and I was very excited that I will teach kids some real thing. I went to my music room and the room was awful. All the classrooms were equipped with smart computers and I had an old rotten blackboard on which chalk couldn’t make a mark. The principal of the school was a woman in her early forties and was very not listening but very” blabbering all she wanted to say” type. I didn’t had to make love to her that I had to care about her, but I wanted the kids to grow in good hands so I started. Any class would take about 10 minutes to reach to the music room and a period was of 25 minutes, with all the adjustments done I had just 10 minutes of lecture to give, which was not enough for me. I started going to the classes to take the theory part, so that I could save some time. First time when I entered a classroom what I saw was awkward. 

There were two sections of rows divided in the class, one for the boys and the other to girls. That was a disaster to me, so I told them to mix around everytime music bell rings. They did the same. I could now see love birds around the classes. I was happy to see love in their hearts but was confused when I came to know that the institution was worried about me changing the seats? They want the kids to not love each other? Teachers should explain and teach kids about love so they don’t go astray. The best they do is tell them that it is bad! It is a sin! They are doing wrong! And when they reach home and watch television or surf the Internet they see something very opposite. What will happen to the mind of a kid? It’s like half of the world is telling you to breath and half of it is telling you not to. 

Well, you cannot “not breath” like the kids. They will fall in love, they will surely go nuts and make very bad decisions too, just like every teacher in that school must have done. And the sad thing is that there is still time to save those kids from that. But no-one is caring. 

Love cannot be opposed, or acted against. It’s just there. You can get married and still never fall in love. You can be married and fall in love with someone else, 

You can fall in love with multiple persons at one point of time, nothing is wrong with it. But cheating on the one who loves you or even making a huge plan to ignore betraying and escaping the relationship may lead to devastating results. 

Look around, find a friend who is cheating in their relationship, you will find that however the one tries to fake smiles and be all happy, he is miserable. His love life, family, work, career, everything has turned into disasters. He is rotting in himself, or herself. 

No? You cheat?? And are complety fine? Brother either you are are faking it or your devastation is perfectly planned and is waiting for you around the corner. 

Don’t take it like karma. Karma is just a word, it is the energies. The kind of vibes you produce around you same happens with you, it really just happens. 

Now few of you maybe like,” I am very positive and very loyal, then why I am so miserable? ”

Answer lies that your positivity is cancelled out by the negatives you dwell with. It’s natural for girls to get attracted to” the bad boys”, but they just don’t know that his negativity has turned her life upside down. 

Be more strong in your conscience or leave your dumb, negative partener, and dwell with more positive people around. 

Love is a positive feeling, and it shows. You won’t be scared of going outside her house to surprise her in the middle of the night, you don’t think about spending more than you earn for her, you don’t prioritize going with friends and you just tell them,” samjh na bhai”. Basically you never use your brain. Well love was never from the brains, and the moment it comes into the  brain” love is gone. All remains is an obsession a sadness a worried mind. 

Love is free of bindings but you are careful, there are plenty of wolves luring around to take your girl as their prey, they are soft spoken masters of manipulation who can turn your love against you. While you know this fact, girls are like,” huh, no-one can manipulate me”. Duh?!! Girls? Well, Manipulation never will knock on your door and say that you are being brain washed. 

Girls, please, stop right there, we are human beings and we are all foolish at some point of time, do not give anyone a chance to show their charm on you. I know you are very intelligent and wise, but I also know I can kiss a girl and make her fall in love with me. I have done it to married ladies, with my classmates, with like any girl above 18. Don’t you judge me for all that I have done! I never forced anyone and every single one of them made the first move. I know if I can do it, there must be others like me. I am retired and that is why I am telling you all the secrets, passing on the wisdom so you don’t have to do it from a scratch. 

I am 22 years old, never did college, have been in a bpo , music teacher in different institutions,have a studio and am a well known photographer, I have a three piece punk rock band,singer,songwriter,guitar player, poet, I am a script writer and a director for my upcoming sci-fi comedy series. I am a certified chiropractor and a masseuse, i am also a tatto artist, I have gone in different parts of India with just hundreds in my pockets and have lived more life than anyone of my age. 

That I have done in just love! 

I have learned to love by my mother, she taught me to cherish the drop of the rain on my finger, she taught me to never pick a flower but how to admire it. She told me that the more beautiful anything is, the more dangerous it can be, and it is just a matter of perception that makes it dangerous or beautiful. 

My mother has given me everything, I was actually raised with too much love around, a middle class family, my mother and her two younger sisters and my grandmother. I was so lucky to have 4 mothers in my early days. I never learnt to complain, never was ashamed that I never had toys like my other friends, but I lived more and I am still living for love. 

See? Love is everywhere! 

Every single possession of yours, your dog, your parents!! Go love them! There is no time left, soon it will all fade, cherish today, and as the Eagles said -love will keep us alive. 

We sit and we talk, about politics, religion, war and terrorists, world full of hatred, think of yourself as a hotspot signal, you take responsibility of your range, and in your range you try to spread as much goodness as you can. Your range may vary with your position, as a classmate you will have a range till your friends, as a director or boss you will have a bigger range, and if you are a president you will have a national area covered. Do not worry and waste any further time having conversations that is out of your reach, try to become more powerful love hotspot everytime and you will start making the world a better place to live in. This is not just an idea about how to deal with things, it is a start. 

You spread love around and even for the ones who don’t deserve shall get your love. This way you will become more responsible and will be at least doing something than just talking, and do not aim for world peace or shit, just be there in peace, in yourself, because nothing in this world can be more important than your inner peace. The world will follow your path sooner or later. 

Your love life had been a problem somehow, but there are just two possible conditions that can be in a relationship, either they love you or they don’t. Tell me if you have a third option available. Yes! For some there are options! Many other options because you literally in love with more than one person! In this situation you have to leave everyone else, it might seem difficult but is not impossible, you will have to, trust me the feelings will fade and you will end up happier simplified and straight. Just keep that in your mind! If they love you it’s great if don’t then just leave, you can end it now or be miserable for a few months or years. I know what you are saying,” Itna aasan hota na to kab ka chor diye hote. ” It is tough but you love them, and they are happier without you so why do you want to push them to love you back? Let them be. Chill, look at them, smile like an idiot and feel butterflies in your belly. This way you will maintain your positive attitude and give yourself a chance to be loved. And let me tell you a truth, you may have heard this before, but take it seriously now. Everything that happens, happens for good. I don’t know if you believe in destiny or not, but I don’t, I have lived my life and the results are from what I have done in the past. The destiny people cannot be won over this argument, but it is just a theory and have nothing to do with what is happening, believe it or not you will have to eat to survive for the next day, like wise, don’t just let the destiny decide your fate, work to build your fate, and the true love shall fall upon you. 

Love is like a drug, more accurately, it is like cocaine. A numbness with happiness. Without a damn reason you become so happy and no senses work. 

Time to change that meaning into the real love. Become love in yourself and let go all the misery. 

Love is a glowing candle, it’s you who decided to burn your house with it.